In one of our previous articles, we introduced you to the basics of pegging.

What is pegging again? It’s a sexual activity where a female penetrates her male partner anally while rocking a strap-on harness and dildo. It is also known as female-on-male strap-on sex. It’s incredibly hot and enables women and men to flip their roles in the bedroom and explore their intimate desires further.

Pegging used to be a bizarre idea but has now become a mainstream sex practice. More and more men are enjoying the pleasure of being penetrated - and it’s easy to see why. Prostate stimulation can offer them all the good feelings. It can provide an entirely different kind of sensation and orgasm that solo masturbation alone cannot give.

Fashion designer Tom Ford also said in an interview that all men should be penetrated at least once in their life. According to him, it would help men understand women and how vulnerable the ladies are during sex. 

If you’ve already got onboard the pegging train and want to take the role flipping experience to the next level with your partner, keep reading. We’ve put together tips, techniques, and new positions to try! You’re welcome!

Toys for expert peggers

Of course, the gears that should not be missing in your pegging game is the lube, strap-on harness, and dildo. Advanced couples may bid goodbye to small-sized dildos and explore the larger ones to enjoy ass play to the fullest. 

A long, penis-like dildo will give a man the anal satisfaction he’s been craving for. We suggest checking out the Brazen Silicone Dildo With Harness. With its chunky and realistic 8-inch dong, it is the perfect pleasure gadget for men who want to enjoy the feeling of fullness. We love the two silicone rings that come along with the set as they allow you to upgrade the dildo size.

The harness is a plus point, too. It is heavy-duty and can stand up to even the most intense thrusting and pumping action. 

When exploring advanced pegging toys, also consider the options that will offer female stimulation. Girls penetrating guys is an out-of-this-world experience, but they don’t really get much satisfaction from it. Try some harnesses with a built-in vibrator or have the option to add a vibrator. 

Our favorite is the Navigator Silicone Dildo With Harness. Its harness has a small pocket for a vibrating bullet so the wearer can also stimulate her clit. Dildo-wise, it features a 7-inch length and a curved design that can no doubt offer the best prostate stimulation experience.

Spicing up your pegging session

Pegging can sometimes become less interesting, especially if you and your partner do it all the time. But the best thing here is you can always experiment with different approaches, techniques, and positions to spice up your sessions and get unlimited pleasure. 

Have you tried pegging with blindfolds? Blindfolding the man will add a new layer of excitement to the play. He will love the anticipation and the feeling of submission. For the woman involved, she can have more control over the pace. According to the book The New Sex Bible by Jessica O’ Reilley:

“The sensory deprivation you experience when you eliminate the sense of sight only heightens the perception of other senses making every touch and every whisper all the more titillating.”

When the woman is inside her partner, she may talk a little dirty to him. She can ask him if he likes it and if he wants it faster. Sexy talks like this while the anal fucking is going on will arouse the man even more. 

Erotic spanking or whipping is another exciting way to spice up the pegging session. Just be sure to give or get consent before doing any spanking as to not ruin the moment. The pegger can explore different spanking intensities, but we suggest starting with lightly hitting his butt cheeks to heighten his pleasure. When he’s already satisfied with the intensity, increase it or use a whip for more excitement.

Couples may also try the “faux” blowjob to relish the role reversal experience. This pegging act is when the man gets on his knees to suck the dildo and lubricate it with his lips and tongue.

It may look like it cannot give the best time of your life, but it can bring a different kind of pleasure to the man because he gets to experience what it’s like to be the one giving the head. The woman will have a great time, too. Seeing her partner down on his knees with those hollowed cheeks and gagging sounds is such a huge turn-on and will let her enjoy her dominant position more. 

When doing faux blowjobs, the man can begin in two ways. He can either moisten the length of the dildo before sucking the head into his mouth or lubricate the cap of the penis with his tongue then swallowing the dildo.

Advanced sex positions for a memorable pegging experience

Doggy style is common in pegging porn videos, but it’s not the only position couples can do to enjoy the female-to-male act. Here are some advanced positions to try to make pegging sessions feel like new again:

• Stand Up - In this position, the woman has to press his man up against the wall. Have him expose his butt out a little and peg him from behind while standing up.

• Lap Dance - The woman has to sit on a chair and push the dildo into the man’s butt hole as he sits down. This sex position allows the man to have complete control over the speed of entry, depth of penetration, and pace. 

• Cowboy - This is a bit similar to the lap dance position. The only difference is that the woman has to lie down on her back and let the man sit on top. He can face her while riding the dildo (cowboy) or face away toward her feet (reverse cowboy).

• Spread Eagle - If you want to see your partner’s face while you’re both getting maximum pleasure, this position is for you. The man will have to lie down, and the woman can peg him from the front. Spread Eagle gives the woman all the controls.

• Bend Over - Some men may not be comfortable getting pegged on their knees. The Bend Over position is an exciting way to enjoy the classic doggy style without the kneeling. Here, the man will bend over something - whether a table or a couch - and the woman can push her dildo into him from behind. 

Pegging can bring an unconventional sex experience to a couple and shake things up in the bedroom. Never stop exploring new positions, approaches, and techniques to discover what truly works best for you and your partner. Excited to take pegging to the next level?

For more pegging tips, check these out:

• The Beginner's Guide to Pegging
• Pegging 101: The No Limit Guide
• Help! I Want to be Pegged, How Do I Talk to My Partner?