How to Host Your First Swinger Party - 5 Tips You Need to Read

How to Host Your First Swinger Party - 5 Tips You Need to Read

Everyone loves a good swinger party, but hosting one yourself can be a whole other ball game if you have never done it before. Luckily, we have a few hardcore swingers on staff who know exactly what it takes to throw a swinger event that is memorable in all the right ways. Here are their tips:

Set Your Guest List

If you are already active in the swinger community then you probably already have a list of great couples in mind that you want to invite. If you are new to the scene, however, this can be a little more challenging because it’s not like you can just walk up to random couples in public and ask if they are swingers. Even if you get lucky and they are swingers, you have no way of knowing what they are like and if they are people you want to invite into your home. If you want a less risky approach that will yield great results, try looking for local swingers on sites like AdultFriendFinder. This offers you a safe place to pre-screen people you may be interested in inviting, plus you can get to know them well beforehand to see if they will click with the rest of your guests.

Set the Ground Rules

Create a list of guidelines ahead of time and make sure your guests know what they are in advance. For example, decide if your party will be full-swap or soft-swap and make sure everyone in attendance is on board with whatever you decide. This is also a great time to discuss if single males or unicorns will be allowed to attend, or if you would like to limit the guest list to strictly couples. At most swinger parties safe sex is a requirement, so make sure guests know that before they arrive as well.

Provide Condoms and Other Pleasure Aids

You want your guests to feel taken care of from the moment they arrive, so make sure you provide things like condoms, lube, and any other sexual aides they may need. You want your guests to focus on having a good time, so having these things handy is one less thing for them to worry while they are meeting and mingling with other couples. You may also want to provide masks for those who want to keep their identity a secret. This can give your party a sexy “masquerade ball” vibe while making your guests feel a little more comfortable in the process.

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Provide Light Food and Drinks

While you want to provide guests with sustenance to fuel the sexual activity they are about to partake in, there is no need to provide a full meal as this is a sex party, not a dinner party. Instead, stick to light snacks and crudités that guests can munch on while chatting and/or taking a break between sessions. In terms of drinks, you can offer an array of non-alcoholic beverages like water and sparking water to keep people hydrated. If you are going to provide libations, however, you may want to keep it light with just a few wine and beer offerings. While a drink or two is good to help people loosen up, you most certainly don’t want anyone doing too many tequila shots and having to be escorted out. Swinger parties are fun because they are a place for consenting adults to gather and explore their capacity for pleasure, so you most certainly don’t want anyone to get so drunk they are no longer able to consent.

Institute a Strict "No Photography" Policy

When people attend swinger parties they normally do so under the assumption that what happens at the party stays at the party. This means that under no circumstances should anyone be taking photos of other guests without their prior consent. Should guests choose to take photos once they are in separate bedrooms and all parties involved have consented, that’s fine, but make sure no one is taking pictures in common areas where everyone may not be aware of what’s going on.

Make Safety a Top Priority

Make sure your guests always feel comfortable and don’t be afraid to escort someone out if they are being overly aggressive or not taking no for an answer. This can be an issue at parties where single males are in attendance, so you may want to take this into consideration when creating your guest list. At the end of the day (or night) what you are providing is a clean, safe space for people to explore their sexuality and have a good time.

Do you have any tips we didn’t mention here? Let us know in the comments and we may feature them in a future article!

 

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